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 # Contributing
-- Please understand that dotfiles are personal
-- If you add new stuff, ask me first to not waste your work
-- FFS make multiple PRs if you have many features
+- Please understand that dotfiles are after all personal. I can accept features I do not personally want, but in that case I will ask you to make it configurable/optionally loaded
+- If you add new stuff, it's a good idea to ask me first to not waste your work
+- Please make multiple PRs if you have many features